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findingmyway · Joined: 29 Mar 2008 Posts: 10 Location: Texas

Hello everyone,
I remember Sonia once saying you should surround yourself with people or activities or groups. Lately ( on and off for the last 6 month) I feel like I am alone. I am currently looking for a job and raising 3 children.
I am just not sure where to go to feel like I am not alone. Crying or Very sad

If anyone can help me or suggest anything.

Thanks,
Dawn

blueskies · Joined: 07 Aug 2007 Posts: 61

Hi Again Dawn, I decided to post this message online in case anyone else could benefit. I recently posted something on this site asking about how to get "unstuck" and I got some feedback about trying to work with Archangels. This struck a cord and I spent a week reading online about archangels. After doing some research and working with prayers, meditation, ernestly calling on the archangel spirit I felt like I was getting really strong support from the energies, in particular Archangel Raphael (healing) and Michael(protection strength). I just spent the last few minutes holding you in prayer consciousness while asking for Archangel support. I hope this helps lift your vibration today and also thought you might want to look into archangels and the philosophy of tapping into the source with the help of extremely high vibration (angel) that is very close to the source (god) and is there to help you but you have to ask for the help. Sonia talks so much about this in her workshops and books, working with Archangels and after this week I see how powerful it is. Also, know that spiritually you are never alone, and I do believe we are all conntected.
blessings to you,

blueskies · Joined: 07 Aug 2007 Posts: 61

Not to say that you shouldn't go out and seek activities that encourage you meeting new friends and connecting with existing family and friends, since it sounds like you could use more of that, just wanted to share something else that might help. Be sure that when you do go out it is with people who lift your spirit up and not to negative/draining. Hope your having a great day!

crystallady2 · Posted: Wed Jul 29, 2009 4:22 am Post subject: Alone with 3 kids

Hi! Dawn,
I know that alot of the time being at home with children can alienate you from so much, or rather adult talk. I did child care for 29 years and there were alot of times that I felt like I needed adult talk not just talking to kids. My one friend really let me know this when Pokeman first came out and we went to the first movie and I knew all the characters names and everything. Yes I probably did need more adult interaction but when I did get out and they would be talking about all the garbage that they were watching on TV, Jerry Springer, Maury,to name a few. I found that most of the things that they were talking about very degrading or humiliating(sp). I would much rather watch a child's show, but I did start taking some art classes and then I also like to take my kids out to the parks and for nature walks. They thought it was for them and they all my own kids included thought that it was for them but I also found it very uplifting for me, and I often found either moms doing the same thing. Now I have gone through a divorce and have changed jobs. I miss the kids but I have my own. But I find that now is a good time to read (like Sonia's books ) and try to find out who I am and what I like. And then
of course you know that you have us. Have a GREAT DAY!!!! You might try Debbie Fords books. She is very good about being good to Yourself.
Have a Really Great Day, Crystallady2

CatherineSmith · Joined: 16 Jun 2009 Posts: 5

Dear Dawn
May God and all the wonderful spirits aid you in parenting and finding a job. I have gone through periods of feeling very isolated and it can be a challenge. A few things that helped me: connect with nature. This can be very grounding so you don't get lost in the negative feeling of being "alone". It also provides space to hear your gudiance clearing old and negative energies away. Find someone to laugh with. It doesn't have to be a soul mate or a best friend, just a "light" aqaintance can help. Reconnect with an old friend. Sometimes a phone calll can do wonders. Meditate. This is a time for learning and healing. Meditiation will aid your process and progress. And always keep a good book on hand. Gifted authors like Sonia can be a great friend even though their connection is through their writings. With love and healing, Catherine

findingmyway · Joined: 29 Mar 2008 Posts: 10 Location: Texas

Thank you ladies for all your help. I am going to try what you have suggested the meditation and nature walks and try to connect with friends. I will keep everyone updated. Thank you so much for all your help. I am also going to ask for prayers and support from the angels espically the archangels.
Very Happy

In light and love,
Dawn

maja · Joined: 07 Nov 2007 Posts: 847 Location: Winnipeg Manitoba

Hello Dawn, I hope you are feeling better.
It really helped me to work with Sonia's Book, Ask Your Guides. Then I always could connect with my inner support system at any time. So now I feel lonely on occasion, but never Alone.
light
maja

mienlie · Joined: 09 Sep 2009 Posts: 14 Location: Marietta, GA

Hi Dawn,
I pick up oracle card for you: "Live Your Soul, Not a Role"

Sit down and think about the things that make you happy. That will unleash your creativity.

Sorry I can't get much info.

With Love,

Joanofarc987 · Joined: 29 Jul 2010 Posts: 2

Try dancing. A lot of places offer group ballroom classes that are inexpensive and a great way to meet other adults after the kids go to bed and get your own energy and body moving. It really helped me when I was where you are, so I wanted to offer it to you as well. I hope you give it a try Smile